Tuesday, August 23, 2005
PS to those who've asked.....
Yes..... it's been going very well. I feel like the luckiest man alive. One day at a time, and I'm sucking up every ounce of time spent as two. Four years I've waited for 'feel'. Funny, I'll be divorced very soon, I feel, and I actually have had the urge to work on my house.
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Hi Vic! Haven't added anything lately...been goin' through some stuff regarding ex-husband. The, you know, how can you love someone with so many problems and he will never change thing. Anyway, good luck with Debbie--I remember that feeling. As for her being married to attorneys and living the "good life," we all know that money can't buy happiness. And while I don't know the whole situation with your son, it sounds like you are an enabler (been there, done that with ex-husband). Remember, it's your house and you shouldn't be relegated to your bedroom. You deserve a life and some happiness--he has his whole life ahead of him. Just wait until he turns 30 (like my son) and you have a conversation wherein son tells you he wished he would have done things differently, how he realizes how he screwed up along the way, how he sees how well some of his cronies have done. But then tells you that he has a wonderful wife, who he loves very much, a daughter who he adores, and an OK job--he feels very content. Talk about feel--not too long ago he thanked me for the good job I did raising him, because at times he was lost and not a nice person. I myself wrote my Mom a letter when my son was 8 or so thanking her for all she did for me and telling her how I realized how hard it was to raise a child. She died shortly after that. I'm so glad I wrote that letter. I wish you luck with Debbie!
Thanks Anon, I appreciate the kind words - and yes, I suppose I am an enabler. It sounds as if your son has really come around - and that's all I hope for.. Sorry to learn about your mom's passing - but way cool that she knew how much you appreciated her raising you. THANKS for reading/writing.
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